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Shell's
Shelf I got an email from a very nice man that asked if I could help him with something that a lot of men have been talking to me about in the SC Chat room. So I thought I would share my advice and see if it helps all of you. The question or problem for many men has been that they have wives/girlfriends that are the perfect woman in so many ways, but just not the vixen they had hoped for in the bedroom. To put it simply, they got married to a woman that was attractive (or they knocked up) before they even knew what kind of sexual relationship they wanted. It! is understandable how many of us find out one day that we are totally "into" something that we never had a clue was around when we made this commitment to another person. Even I did not know I was bisexual when I got married. I did not know I was an exhibitionist until I tried it (wink). When I was younger I thought that my man was my man. I believed that once you got married you were to never be with another again. I thought being with a woman was wrong. Now look at me! So here is the advice or what happened to me. Long ago before I was a charm or had my first amazing moment with another woman, I fell in love with an amazing man. I was in a daze by his looks, charm and humor. I married him days after we met, and before I knew it I was so madly in love with him that I thought I could never be so happy. We talked and talked a lot and slowly I began to hear what he was saying about life and sex. I did not know what wonderful things I was going to star! t to enjoy. I later found out it was all to plan. He knew what! I was, but let me figure it out. Step one~ We made love and made love often.... He brought me outside one night and we began to kiss on the patio on an old couch we had outside. It was dark but not too dark and people occasionally would walk by. They were not close but we could see them. We had sex right there with me on top of him. It was strange and erotic. It got me burning inside with lust. That night I got hooked on having sex with people watching me, but it did not end there. Step two~ We had friends over a lot..... In our first year together it was common for us to have friends over for drinks and food. I became comfortable having people I barely knew in my house laughing and joking till the early morning hours. One time when my guard was completely down and my tequila intake was extremely up. He said "I dare you to kiss that girl over there". As she sat and looked at me with the biggest brown doe eyes you could imagine. Her BF smiled and nudged her towards me.! I thought why not? We pressed together and the rush of heat struck me like a ton of bricks. Not only was I doing this with another woman (and liking it) but everyone was watching. So I found that my exhibitionist side was being indulged but my long asleep bisexual side was being awaken with a triple shot of espresso!!! We dropped to the floor and went at it like wolves. Step three~ He kept silent about it for months letting me soak up the enjoyment of it. I thought I would let it go and figured it was all in the past, but that seed in my head grew and grew until I had to talk to him about it. I thought there was something wrong with me, but actually I was normal. He told me about how many women are in fact bisexual. It is researched that real bisexual women have many female partners, but only love one man at a time. This is an ingrained characteristic from Nordic/European or other like cultures where the people come from centuries of all the men in a village leavin! g their wives in a geographically isolated place for long peri! ods of t ime. These women found sexual surrogacy in the other women stuck without their husbands. Suddenly it all made sense to me. This is why two women is looked upon as erotic, but two men together is taboo. So it took me a long time, but he was patient and now I am the woman he still loves deeply and he is the man I would never leave. I am told in emails that I am a dream woman, but the secret is that every woman is a dream woman... if you take your time and follow the steps. Good luck and I hope it works for you... I would love to have some more sexy bi-ladies in this world. Kisses, Shell Keep your questions cumming !!!! |
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